Hayden Dane's "I Have One Question"

I Have One Question

A Lifetime of Love in a Handful of Pages

Now Available--Hayden Dane's "I Have One Question"

A lifetime of love begins with finding your ideal partner. If you are single and looking, involved and wondering, or even married, Hayden Dane's book "I Have One Question" is for you. Brief and to the point, "I Have One Question" describes and explains a conversation about admiration that you must have to learn whether your love interest could be your ideal partner.

Media report, "Dane makes a convincing case that true love lies in one partner admiring in the other what he/she admires in himself/herself."

"I Have One Question" describes a conversation to be had between couples or those looking to be couples that will elicit the elements each admires in himself/herself. Dane observes that most people haven't thought in terms of admiration, so simply asking your partner, "What do you admire about yourself," isn't likely to yield helpful information. To overcome this limitation, Dane walks readers through the conversation to have, using himself as an example. Upon finishing the book, the reader should be able to have a comfortable and productive conversation with their spouse, significant other, or prospective partner and be able to properly interpret the answers received in order for each to reliably conclude on their long-term compatibility as a couple.

Learn this conversation...have this conversation...sooner rather than later, and avoid heartbreak and disappointment.

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Excerpt from "I Have One Question"

Introduction

Some say that you learn more from your mistakes than from your successes.

I know that’s true for me. Especially when it comes to matters of the heart.

And I’ve made my share of mistakes where my heart is concerned.

You, too?

And why not? If you were to visit most dating Web sites or read most personal ads, you would think the key to enjoying a lasting relationship is a shared interest in dining, dancing, or some other activities.

I guess we’re to believe that if there’s “chemistry” coupled with some shared interests, we’ve got it made. How many times has a relationship based on chemistry and shared interests seemed so promising, only to fizzle out and end in parting or divorce?

And then your heart hurts. You wouldn’t think it could, but it actually aches. It pulls you inside yourself to a place of retreat. Ironically, it pulls you to that very place where you wish your soul mate would be to comfort you.

I’ve read the relationship books; I’ve been to relationship and marriage counselors; I’ve taken the online tests. I’ve searched for my soul mate within a 5-mile radius of my home and I’ve searched for her overseas. I’ve found many women with whom I had chemistry; many more whose interests I shared.

But I haven’t found my soul mate. Not yet. And if you’re reading this book, then you’ve probably not found yours either.

Would we know our soul mate if we met him or her? That’s what this book is about.

Chemistry?				Y
Similar Interests?				Y
Age?				Y
Religion?				Y
Work Status?				Y
Temperament?				Y
Education?				Y

We all know how to measure our compatibility with another using common measures such as the above. Some of you may even have developed the discipline to walk away if one or more of the above wasn’t to your liking.

But what about the others; the men or women who matched up well against all of the above, and your hopes soared? Everything seemed just right, but with the passage of time doubts crept in, praise turned to criticism, patience turned to impatience, thoughtfulness turned to selfishness.

If you’re like me, and I think like most people, this is about the time you start noticing things large and small that you’d like to “change” about your boyfriend or girlfriend.

Some of the changes may come easily; others more grudgingly, and still others not at all. And when they don’t come at all, resentment sets in:

“If you really cared about me, you’d do this for me.”

“If you really loved me, this wouldn’t be an issue.”

You want to see the changes occur because you want this relationship to work. You want to see the changes occur because you’ve opened your heart to this person.

But some changes don’t come; they’ll never come. And you begin to feel that familiar heartbreak. You begin to wish you’d known then what you know now, so it wouldn’t hurt so much.

You could have known long before now, long before you gave away your heart. All you had to do was say, “I have one question…

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